stephanie-evelyn: nostalgiacancer: We as a society really need to stop romanticizing the idea of...

stephanie-evelyn:

nostalgiacancer:

We as a society really need to stop romanticizing the idea of “needing” romantic partners and “not being able to live without them” because it is incredibly unhealthy and leads people to wind up in unhealthy situations of dependency or feeling dependent and not thinking to change that mindset because it seems romantic

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I don’t totally agree or disagree here. I will try to figure why eventually but I think it stems from the fact that it’s okay to need people and to not need people. Whatever works for you. It’s not unhealthy always and sometimes others can fill in the missing bits. I guess I’m not a fan of absolutes.